The Hidden World of Geishas

The Cultural Significance of "Ichigen-san o kotowari"

In the heart of Kyoto, a city steeped in tradition, there is an unspoken rule: “Ichigen-san o kotowari,” which translates to “turn away those you only meet once.” Far from a mere dismissal, this phrase stands as the cornerstone of preserving centuries-old traditions.

An exemplification of Kyoto’s cultural richness lies in one of Japan’s highest forms of entertainment and hospitality: the Ozashiki (お座敷), where Maiko-san and Geiko-san entertain guests with their presence during a traditional dinner.

Kyoto Ozashiki at 濱登久

The literary work of “Geisha, a Life” by Mineko Iwasaki has illuminated the intricacies of the Geisha society and the vital role it plays in safeguarding this tradition. The Geisha world, seemingly perplexing to outsiders, involves young girls, training in the delicate art of entertaining guests with their unique talents.

However, the challenges of modern times have significantly dwindled the number of geiko and maiko-san in Kyoto to fewer than 200, from the once-thriving thousands. Witnessing these artisans, who have mastered the delicate art of entertainment, has become a truly poignant experience.

From a young age, these trainees embark on a journey steeped in tradition, mastering the intricate arts of dance, music, and etiquette to become the refined and captivating geiko of Kyoto

For some, particularly foreign observers, the “Geisha,” an entertainer may be intertwined with the roles of the “Oiran,” a courtesan. This conflation can lead to uncomfortable or even harmful situations for the geiko and maiko-san.

Consequently, the “Ochaya,” tea houses where geiko and maiko-san entertain patrons, are invitation only. Guests must be referred by an existing patron before they can enter. This careful vetting process serves to ensure that guests approach the experience with a profound appreciation for and respect towards the intricate artistry and cultural significance they are about to encounter.